Healthy Masculinity Workshops for Boys and Young Men
Healthy Masculinity Workshops for Boys and Young Men
Programs for boys in Year 7-12
eSAFETY Trusted Provider | Strengths-based approach | Delivered across Australia
THE SNAPSHOT:
Boys don’t switch off because the message is wrong. They switch off because of how it’s delivered.
Our healthy masculinity workshops give boys and young men in Years 7-12 a space to talk honestly about respect, strength, friendship and identity, without shame, lectures or finger-pointing. Sessions are strengths-based and pro-social: we start from the belief that young men want to be good men, and we give them the language, role models and practical tools to get there; while also the strategies and the confidence to pull a mate up when he falls short. This is where the work lives.
Delivered at your school, anywhere in Australia, by director Ben Russell - a Trusted eSafety Provider with 15+ years in school leadership.
“Really got me thinking. Wasn’t as if we were being told what to do, but Ben definitely made us think about the blokes we are and if it is the version we want to put out into the world. Thanks for challenging me Ben ”
WHY SCHOOLS BOOK THIS WORKSHOP
Many schools are navigating the immense pressure in forming good men: consent education mandates, online influencers selling boys a distorted version of manhood, and staff who want to engage boys without alienating them. A one-off assembly rarely moves the dial. A well-run workshop, where boys feel seen, heard, respected, and challenged rather than accused, does.
Schools use these workshops to complement their respectful relationships program, to respond to specific cohort issues, or as an annual rite-of-passage session for a year level.
WHAT THE WORKSHOPS COVER
Content is tailored to your cohort and context. Core themes include:
What strength actually looks like: challenging the shrunken version of masculinity boys meet online
Respect in friendships, relationships and group settings: including bystander moments
Online culture: influencers, group chats and the gap between banter and harm
Emotions and mates: building the vocabulary young men are rarely given
Role models: identifying the men they actually want to become
Formats range from a single 90-minute workshop to a half-day intensive or a multi-visit series across a term. Parent evening add-on available (The Connected Family keynote).
HOW A SESSION IS BUILT
Every session follows the same sequence. What changes with the format is how far into each stage the boys actually get.
“90 minutes and they hear it. Half a day and they talk it through. A full day and they practise it, commit to it, and your staff keep the language.”
All five themes run through every format. In a keynote they are named and one is opened up. Across a full day each one gets its own activity. The multi-visit series builds on whichever format you start with, and The Connected Family parent keynote can run on the same evening.
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Download the two-page program outline: what a session covers, how it runs, and what shapes the cost.
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It starts with something happening: A whole-room moment. One question the entire cohort answers at once, on their feet or with their hands, so nobody sits it out anonymously.
Then they make sense of it: We name what just happened in the room and what it reveals. Story telling does the work.
Then the idea behind it: One theme has a deep dive, usually strength or online culture, with the research behind it. The other four get named.
Then they turn it inward: One question put to the room and deliberately left unanswered. The ball is their court in what to do next.
Then they walk out with something: One clear challenge, and language your staff can pick up in pastoral time on Monday.
Whole year level in a hall or theatre. No staff prep required, no breakout spaces needed, minimal timetable disruption.
Multiple cohorts can be done across the day within this model.
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It starts with something happening: A short activity inside workshop groups. Boys are interacting with each other rather than with the front of the room.
Then they make sense of it: The boys do the naming. Facilitated discussion in groups of 6-8, with your staff in the room.
Then the idea behind it: Two or three themes worked properly, chosen with you beforehand based on what is actually going on in the cohort.
Then they turn it inward: Written and private. Nobody reads it out and nobody collects it.
Then they walk out with something: A specific commitment each boy names for himself, plus follow-up questions for your team.
Roughly three hours. Needs two or three breakout spaces and staff in the rooms. This is the point at which boys stop being an audience.
Two cohorts can do this per day.
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It starts with something happening: A full experiential activity with room to move and consequences that play out, long enough that boys forget they are being taught.
Then they make sense of it: Extended debrief, then groups report back to each other. The cohort hears itself rather than hearing us.
Then the idea behind it: All five themes, in rotation, each with its own activity.
Then they turn it inward: Written, then a choice about what to share, with the invitation building through the day rather than sprung on them.
Then they walk out with something: A commitment made in front of peers, and a shared reference point the cohort can touch on for the rest of the year.
Approximately 9am to 3pm. Needs multiple spaces and staff willing to be participants rather than supervisors.
The only format where the school walks away with language it can keep using.
For multiple cohorts, it needs to be across back-to-back days.
WHO IT’S FOR
Years 7-12, in boys’ schools and co-ed settings (delivered to boys-only groups or whole cohorts, depending on your goals). Group sizes from a single class to a full year level.
For our general healthy, respectful relationship programs look here:
Testimonials
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Over the past two years, Churchie has been fortunate to develop a strong and highly valued partnership with Ben Russell and Empowerment-Ed. Working collaboratively with Ben, we have developed a bespoke programme within our existing whole-school wellbeing framework. The programme was launched through an engaging cohort presentation, whilst Ben has also worked closely with our broader wellbeing team to deepen our understanding of the evolving nature of character formation and wellbeing in young people.
Berian William-Jones - Deputy Head of Senior School - Anglican Church Grammar School (Churchie)
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Thank you, Ben. We thoroughly enjoyed having you share your knowledge and experience with our growing group of young boys. The students are excited as they prepare an assembly item for next week, inspired by some of the topics you explored with them. We look forward to welcoming you back again soon.
Sam - Head of Year - Clayfield College
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Exceptional presentation by Ben Russell to our Year 8 students from Villanova College Coorparoo this afternoon and evening. Ben delved into critical subjects like respectful relationships, trust-building, and the dangers of toxic social media trends. His insights on the distorted perceptions created by social media and associated industries highlighted the need for realistic expectations. This session was not just informative but vital, instiling in our students an appreciation for themselves and fostering healthy relationships. Ben and his team facilitated a safe environment for our students to be open with each other and learn from each others individual perspectives. These lessons will undoubtedly shape their future interactions and empower them to create nurturing connections. Thank you, Ben and the team, for equipping our students with essential life skills!
Head of Year 8 Villanova College
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I just wanted to reach out and thank you again for your presentation - it was very engaging and informative. The concepts you spoke about were relevant and well-explained for their age, and something that really needs to be explicitly taught, regardless of background or privilege. It was great to be able to reference back to the scenarios and examples you gave in our Year Level assembly today..
Head of Year 7 - Downlands College
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Really got me thinking. Wasn't as if we were being told what to do, but Ben definitely made us think about the blokes we are and if it is the version we want to put out into the world. Thanks for challenging me Ben
Student - Year 10
FAQs
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No, and that’s the point. Shame-based approaches push boys toward the very voices we’re trying to counter. Sessions are conversational, story-driven and strengths-based, and boys consistently rate them as sessions where they felt spoken with, not at.
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It slots directly into an RRE or pastoral program as a boys-focused deep dive, or runs standalone. Many schools pair it with our Empowering Relationships program across the year.
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Yes - The Connected Family parent keynote is designed to run as an evening session so families hear a consistent message.
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Australia-wide. We’re based in Brisbane and regularly travel to every state and territory.
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Any number. Smaller groups allow more discussion, larger cohorts work well for the keynote-style format. We will tell you honestly which shape suits what you are trying to achieve.
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No. Roughly half of our healthy masculinity work happens in co-educational schools, delivered to boys-only groups or to whole cohorts depending on your goals. We will talk through which is right for your context.
Enquire:
Tell us your year level, cohort and what’s prompted the enquiry, and we’ll shape a workshop to fit. Call Ben on 0422 066 281 or enquire below for a no-obligation chat.